What triggered my blog: An article about porn!

Posted: January 3, 2015 in Uncategorized

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So, I was having this Idea of creating my own blog to spill my mind every once in a while on it… What bothers me the most is not the situation in Lebanon and what is happening in Lebanon, but the reactions that follows. My reaction was simple, quietly immigrate to Canada, I am not asking anybody to react the same way I did. My reaction came to efficiently improve my own life since it was nearly impossible to improve the country. It is hard to aim improvement on the problem, when the problem is in fact the people who react. But hey it’s the beginning of the year and I don’t have a resolution yet, so what the heck! let my resolution be to start this crappy blog already and start fanatically attacking those pretensions bloggers who have been on my nerves for a while now, and not to forget of course the media. I am not a great writer, but I believe that.. okay sorry I promised you of porn and instead i was writing gibberish…

So, I came across this article when i was randomly browsing (don’t forget to come back and read the rest of my article when you read the other… Please): http://ginosblog.com/2015/01/02/pornhubs-number-1-porn-star-is-now-lebanese-born-and-bred/

And now I know that there is  Lebanese born and bred porn star who is ranked nb1 on pornhub. Yea yea we all like porn nobody is lying, well at least the guys do. But that’s not a problem. The problem is the article itself, Gino is promoting for porn here! the guy got excited! So much excited that a 5 min session of hitting the pole wasn’t enough for him, he was so proud, happy and excited that he had to blog about it! that’s the ultimate climax! It’s the same as if he clicked that “share” button on the porn video, you know that share button that we all make fun off? well the guy actually promoted a porn actress!
Ouf! That was too much for me to handle… Okay okay, i’m not gonna lie I did my search as everybody did… And I was curious about the tweeter profile… Holy crap! Gino is there too! The guy is sucking up her ass! I have no idea what kind of fantasy this guy is thinking he can bring into reality! It’s a good thing to have a porn star as an acquaintance…

So now I know what’s about this article, It’s not about being free to do whatever with their body, nor about the da3ech-mentality that is slowly taking over… All that is bullshit! It is simply for the writer to touch base with a porn star! So I have nothing to say more or to argue, except one question… I wonder how Gino will feel if his Sister, Mother or cousin is a porn star, or perhaps he would prefer to marry one and let her raise his kids, I don’t need an answer, it will be for him to think about it…

All of this made me think about something… I have seen naked women more than all of my ancestors combined! And actually I prefer the wisdom, simplicity and tranquility of my grandfather over my own mind and personality… I wonder maybe it would have done us good not to have easy access and exposure to porn!

We all want to bang a porn star… But we all know we are going to have a bad time keeping porn away from our kids for the longest time possible.

Update: Apparently “A seperate state of mind” joined the campaign bashing Nemer Abou Nassar on their way… First of all, Nemer has the right to express himself the way he wants, he is the most person away from hypocricy I know. For the record, well written article by “A seperate state of mind”, but the hit on Nemer was cheap, low and not in it’s place, not as much as using NSFW images… Stay classy:) Here is a link of the article http://stateofmind13.com/2015/01/03/hijabi-porn-and-national-anthem-pride-lebanons-new-joy-1-porn-star-mia-khalifa/

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  1. Also, I’m sure you’d like to know that they just put this on mtv news. These news outlets never learn. If you don’t want to make something better-known, don’t post it on the goddamn news! Hopeless case.

    I honestly don’t care what Mia does, but using Hijab as a fetish-factor in porn is gonna piss off many people, the same as crosses in other porn videos are put deliberately.

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  2. Also, I’m sure you’d like to know that they just put this on mtv news. These news outlets never learn. If you don’t want to make something better-known, don’t post it on the goddamn news! Hopeless case.

    I honestly don’t care what Mia does, but using Hijab as a fetish-factor in porn is gonna piss off many people, the same as crosses in other porn videos are put deliberately.

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  3. Rami says:

    You should quit this blog before it starts, I cant stop laughing AT you and your desuctive reasoning…. You are polluting existence….

    Haad illi tili3 ma3ak? Gino wants to fuck her thats why he is writing it? I am not a supporter of woman selling themselves, but it definitely makes me more proud to have a pornstar as a Lebanese then you.

    You are the residual waste of freedom of speech

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  4. rawad says:

    LOL
    You Sir should listen to the first comment and stop this blog before it starts.
    You should also reconsider immigrating to Canada. Just saying

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      You want me to go back to lebanon? If I should listen to the first comment, I should stop existing as well… Too late it started already, but dont expect any mainstream in it! As I said it is a blog to criticize the people who react badly on a certain event..

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  5. Kharanet says:

    Man that argument of “what if it was your mother or sister?” or “would you marry her?” are so backwards and sexist. Well of course I wouldn’t want my sister to be a sex worker of any kind, but it’s not my place to say what she can or can’t do. Furthermore, that implies that a woman is validated and given owl value purely through her ability to marry a man.

    If a woman wants to take her clothes off and eat dick for money then what’s the big deal? People use their bodies for labor in many occupations. Think of construction workers or bodyguards. All of a sudden cause a vagina’s involved, men (especially Arab men) feel that their potential dominion over the women in their orbit is jeopardized and react righteous indignation (but only after watching her videos and rubbing one out of course). Conservative women feel threatened by a more liberal woman because they view her actions as reducing their sexual negotiating power as a group (since men now have an easier option available).

    If there was a famous Lebanese dude with a 12 inch dick doing porn fucking white chicks, he’d be hailed as a national hero.

    Medieval thinking I’d still rife in Lebanon. No one gives a shit that we have an illegitimate unelected parliament sitting and a vacant presidency or that our food supplies are literally contaminated by bird and rat feces. But a consenting adult takes her top off and is legally remunerated for her work, and all of a sudden we feel shame and indignation.

    Lebanon, as a state and people, is the source of shame for Lebs.

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      Thabk you for your point of view. But unfortunately you missed my point. I did not say a word if I am with or against what she is doing. My whole article was against the bloggers who promoted her.

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      • Nuanceisimportant says:

        No it wasn’t, you said imagine it’s your sister or daughter or whatever. Honestly, I’d stand by her side if that’s what she wants to do.
        And if it’s not your opinion, care to share what you would do if it was your sister or daughter?

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      • tafa7alkayl says:

        I would not promote her that’s for sure… But as for you, congratulations you are the closest thing to a pimp

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      • Kharanet says:

        Actually you made the same sexist argument of “what if she was your sister, mother, ?” SAnd “would you marry her and let her raise your children?” That’s mainly what I was tackling.

        Whether or not someone doesn’t want their sister to be a sex worker shouldn’t have any relevance whatsoever. I wouldn’t want either of my siblings to prostitute, to be religious, to be obese, to be a communist or a host of other things either.

        And according to Lebanese/Arab stone age thinking, a woman is only validated by her relation to a man (father first then husband). It’s such a backwards, retarded argument that is always used as though it were a debate stopper that it makes me so ashamed to be affiliated in any way with Leb society than any number of dicks my hypothetical sister or daughter can ever eat on camera.

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      • Kharanet says:

        Actually you made the same sexist argument of “what if she was your sister, mother, ?” And “would you marry her and let her raise your children?” That’s mainly what I was tackling.

        Whether or not someone doesn’t want their sister to be a sex worker shouldn’t have any relevance whatsoever. I wouldn’t want either of my siblings to prostitute, to be religious, to be obese, to be a communist or a host of other things either.

        And according to Lebanese/Arab stone age thinking, a woman is only validated by her relation to a man (father first then husband). It’s such a backwards, retarded argument that is always used as though it were a debate stopper that it makes me so ashamed to be affiliated in any way with Leb society than any number of dicks my hypothetical sister or daughter can ever eat on camera.

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      • Kharanet says:

        And this sort of thinking/debate, and the fact that this is actually a topic, is one of the major reasons I left Lebanon 8 years and will never go back.

        And as for bloggers like Gino supporting her, they’re a positive liberal influence.

        I’m just glad all this dumb hate and shit flinging has pushed her to number one on PornHub and she can reap the financial benefits.

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      I never said “what if she was your mother or sister…”… I said “what if your mother and sister is a porn star…” I don’t think any of them is sexist.
      I think you should double read and try to understand. I dont find it enjoyable explaining my point over and over again. My entire post is not against pornstars, my opinions about pornstars in general is not enclosed in anyway. My opinion is about the way this issue was handled by some bloggers.
      In your replie you are answering your own question. If you dont want any of your relative to be anything of the things you named, why would you want to promote for someone who is!

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      • Tabbil says:

        The point is supporting personal freedom of choice, especially for women. I’m not supporting “someone else’s mother or sister” to become a pornstar. Again you fall into your sexist rhetoric that a woman is defined by her relationship – though the danger is that you don’t seem to recognize the sexism in that sort of argument and speech. I am supporting a person’s freedom to do whatever they want with their body and to get paid (so long as they aren’t hurting anyone else).

        I’m also touching on the fact that this sort of conservative religious moral structure is the reason Lebanon is a shitty country and Lebanese society so repressed and impotent.

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  6. Ryan Hamze says:

    Welcome to the lebanese bloggers club! Looking forward to your next article. .. porn free:p

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  7. memento says:

    “And actually I prefer the wisdom, simplicity and tranquility of my grandfather over my own mind and personality…”

    You have all the right to prefer whatever the hell you want. What the other blog is demanding is for you and the rest of the “conservative” people in our respectable society to understand just that and let others prefer – and therefore live – whatever lives they choose for themselves, without being judged or discriminated against. That is all we demand. And as a progressive tolerant educated member of our society who seems to care enough for the welfare of his home country (as opposed to getting the hell out of this godforsaken place at the first opportunity), you should be protecting freedoms at all costs, instead of siding with the oppressive intolerant hypocrits who consciously and actively work toward the dumbing down of our youth by promoting their backward conservative views in order to push their sectarian and religious agendas if only to secure their positions in power.

    And one last thing. You run away to Canada where pornography is not only accepted but also considered to be a legal business. You look down on us Lebanese who remain in Lebanon (as apparent by your introductory boasts) for being a backward society that fails to evolve. Then you bash us for being tolerant towards people who make choices that do not align with your particular views?

    Tolerance towards other people’s lifestyles (religion, sect, sexual orientation, promiscuity or fidelity, political beliefs) does not imply liking or agreeing with it. That would be called approval. Tolerance only calls for marginal acceptance. Just accept that others do not necessarily have to subacribe to your own moral compass. Tolerance. All we ask.

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      My opinion about porn and pornstars is not inclosed in any way. My opinion is about promoting something just to suck up on someone’s ass… Your entire session of brainstorming went into waste. I never said your or others opinion should be silenced, but i. Return you cannot ask not to say my opinion as is. It is not my problem the way you understand. I believe my words were simple and clear.

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      • memento says:

        No they weren’t.
        I am not asking you to withhold your opinion. As I said you have all the right to think and express your opinions anyway you see fit. You’ve got nothing to lose anyway, you’re in Canada.

        As for us here, who have to deal with politicians who conspire to censor our internet, our media and our lives all in the name of conservativism, find it worthwhile to stress out the point that we will not let anyone tell us what we can or cannot do with our own bodies, minds and souls, or shove their own beliefs down our throats.

        I guarantee you, those intolerant ideas that you seem to be carrying all the way to Canada are the reason why Lebanon sucks.

        I also think I want to point out to your somewhat sexist remarks on whether one would accept that his mother or sister appear in porn movies. As if your acceptance or approval of their choices are of any relevance. Your sister, and especially your mother are adults capable of making their own choices in life. And depending on their particular level of intellect education and experience in life, may be even better suited to make such decisions than yourself.

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      • tafa7alkayl says:

        You cannot claim a hard question to answer as a sexist remark just because by anwering it it will put you in a faulty position that either you support porn or you are an ipressive douchebag!

        The reality is that we ALL watch porn and we ALL do not want it away, but in the same time none of us want see his mother, sister, brother, uncle.. Whatever in a porn movie! So we better shut the hell up about porn.. Keep doing what we are doing knowing that it is immoral and the lowest line of life but we enjoy it anyways… We are all a bunch of hypocrits! If you are pro-porn under the banner of freedom and whatnot but yet you cannot accept a close one to be a pornstar.. And if you are against porn but secretly fap away every night!

        This “sexist” question is to make you realize gow much of a hypocrite you are.. WE ALL ARE!

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      • memento says:

        No. You keep assuming things. The truth is, I couldn’t care less if my sister or mother chose to appear in a porno. As I said, their choice, their life.

        I personally wouldn’t want my daughter to end up whoring for money on the premise that I find this career path to be dangerous and destructive, so I try to educate her and adviae her against such a lifestyle; but if I can’t afford for her a decent life otherwise I have only myself to blame. And as soon as she hits 18, I have absolutely no authority over her.

        More interestingly, if my sister/mother/daughter/whatever_female_figure chose to go down this career path against my advise, I would stand by them and support them. If they choose to be porn stars they might as well be the world’s best porn stars. Their excellence and success is by far more important than my own convictions.

        That aside, I suggest you sign your posts with a name; at least a nickname, so that people could identify with you in the discussion or otherwise.
        Good to see a new Lebanese blogger stepping up, even though I totally disagree with you on this one. Hopefully your next posts will be less on the conservative camp. If you really want to make a differnce, start by helping people out of their tribal herd-mentality. Cheers

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  8. Who gives a fuck says:

    Bro Nemer is a hypocrite simply cause he bashed Clink for being cheap and not representing Lebanon the way she should. and now he is praising Mia. Why can Mia do what she wants but not Clink.

    PS dont give a shit about any of them.

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  9. Abzk says:

    wow man before you actually think of writing a second post, I would really consider taking up advanced english lessons. Whether it’s the interchangeable use of “off” and “of” or just the weak syntax you use in your post and comments, it’s sad to see Canada has really not rubbed off at all on you..

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      Thank you for your effort to spell-check my text. How much do you charge because I will need you in the many texts to come as I will be using whatever language and syntax i want And I will not give a damn about the typos and errors That I will do. And by the way. I live in the french part of Canada.. Or maybe you did not know that such part exist… Maybe by using simple or “weak” syntax it will be understandable to all readers and especially those who have basic english knowledge.

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      You are really dim-witted aren’t you?
      Well almost nobody wants their daughter to be a nun, because they want grandchildren but they can’t really admit it as they will be considered out of faith.. And those who do are being laughed at for believing in something that does not exist.. Same thing. But reversed. You need to double-think before you comment

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      Thank you for visiting. Hope to see you soon… Don’t forget you’re dictionary…

      Sorry, your*

      You thaught you got one didn’t you

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    • tafa7alkayl says:

      Next time I will make sure to use a PC where spell checking is available rather than the mobile version… But you know that you don’t have to torture yourself and keep correcting me… Unless you are having fun, which is cool, since im on a break of immaturity, i can play along..

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  10. Abzk says:

    oh and as for your philosophy on ethics, porn is immoral and we all know it? because we dont want our mothers and sisters doing it? I dont want my sister to become a nun.. i feel she would be missing out on a huge part life has to offer. does that mean I think becoming a nun is immoral?
    go read a book man, both for its ideas and language

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  11. tafa7alkayl says:

    Thank you for your support and your mature opinion, I hope that I will improve with my future posts and that I will see more often participating.
    I consider myself sloghtly outside the conservative parts, but with few red lines. I hope to improve my skills so my messages will be better understood. Thank you for your participation as i appreciate this kind of civilized engagement.

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  12. MissM says:

    First of all i totally support @tafa7alkayl
    2Nd: i know most of u or better to say all of guys here will attack me after saying this: smalla 3layloun kellkoun chou open minded w ma3 fekrit enno el we7de tkoun porn star w its normal, kezzebin kellkoun, u r just supporting this thing becoz fi porn bl mawdou3 w chattit ryeletkon, but if u really think about it u will never accept for someone u know to have a porn star career…tfeh, so disgusting enno l nes weslit 3al marrikh w entou hayda hammkon l wa7id…..

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  13. Thegrinch says:

    i wanna start a blog – get ready – that criticizes bloggers who started their blog as a new years’ resolution, who criticize bloggers who criticize pornstars who happen to be Lebanese.

    I think someone should OPT to start a blog, that criticizes bloggers-in-attempt, who criticize bloggers who started their blog as a new years’ resolution, who criticize bloggers who … you know

    i still think you should enjoy the putting and a casual trip to New York every few months from Canada.

    the whole point of blogging, i.e. Gino’s blog, is for someone – whoever – to sit and write whatever the fuck he wants to write about anything.
    Boy does Gino piss me off with his religious pieces; but with the majority of his articles, they’re either too entertaining, too serious, or too beneficial. i believe this douche will actually fix a thing or two on the long run.
    you, however should consider learning a thing or two from him. maybe get more than only 5 minutes of fame.

    i immigrated to the US, not quietly. boom

    i will not be revisiting to reply. sorry though

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